Horenstein Family Law Blog
What to Call A Stepparent
Posted: March 22, 2010
One of the most contentious issues in post divorce parenting conflict is what to call the stepparent. Many divorced parents feel threatened by a new “daddy” or new “mommy” in their children’s lives. Young children often find it easier to eventually call the stepparent “Dad” too. This issue becomes even more difficult when the stepparent and the parent have a child together. I have had clients who say we need to make sure in their final orders that they are the only parent to be called “Mom” or “Dad”. I have had other clients who say that they don’t want to cause stress in the new family and that they support whatever name is easiest for the children to use for all the parent-like adults in their lives. After all, these parents say, they do live with my child and help care for my child.
I think we would all agree that it is in the best interests of children to minimize conflict in their lives rather than create conflict. In the best of all worlds, the parents and stepparents could simply agree on their respective titles. Until then, using different titles like Eric Dad and Dad or Cindy Mom and Mom may be a good option. If you have suggestions for newly remarried parents, please feel free to email me and I will share them in this blog.
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